March 5, 2026

Nelson Bay mum turns police experience into life-saving lessons

FORMER detective Danielle Godfrey has swapped her police badge for a powerful new mission: equipping women and girls with the skills and confidence to stay safe. 

After a 12-year career in policing, including two years as a detective with the Transit Crime Investigation Team working in sexual offences, Ms Godfrey saw first-hand the devastating and long-lasting trauma experienced by assault victims.

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Many, she says, were blindsided.

“Some were male, however most were young women who had no idea these dangers existed,” she said.

“They were completely shocked when it happened to them.”

When her family relocated interstate in 2022, Ms Godfrey left the force but not the sense of responsibility that had shaped her career.

Determined to share the knowledge she had gained, she founded “Girl Aware” in Nelson Bay, delivering self-defence and empowerment workshops across Newcastle and Port Stephens.

As a mother of three, with a son and two daughters, her work is deeply personal.

“I often put myself in the shoes of victims and their parents,” she said.

“Knowledge is power. Being aware of dangers is the first form of self-defence, and avoiding them is the key.”

While the Newcastle and Port Stephens region is widely regarded as safe, she warns that risks can exist anywhere at home, school or work, and are often committed by someone known to the victim.

Her “Girl Aware” program focuses on awareness, instinct and voice.

Participants learn to recognise red flags, trust their gut and project confidence.

By the end of each workshop, shy beginnings often transform into high-fives, laughter and a surge of questions.

“It’s incredible to watch.

“When girls realise they have a voice and the ability to protect themselves, everything shifts.”

By Jacie WHITFIELD

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