PORT Stephens is a community built on respect, kindness, and diversity.
It’s what makes us strong, vibrant, and proud to call this place home.
But lately, I’ve been concerned about what I’m seeing online, and I know many of you have noticed it too.
In recent months, there’s been a rise in negative and, at times, abusive comments directed at councillors, staff, and community members.
These aren’t just throwaway words typed behind a keyboard, they hurt real people, divide us, and risk undermining the community spirit we all value.
A small but vocal few are dominating online spaces with nastiness and aggression.
Their behaviour is discouraging others from sharing their ideas and opinions.
And that’s the real loss – when people feel too intimidated to speak up, healthy discussion is replaced by hostility, and good ideas are left unheard.
Earlier this month, I asked my fellow Councillors to support a stronger commitment to respectful online discussions.
This isn’t about silencing debate.
Healthy disagreement is essential for a thriving community, but it must be done respectfully. Everyone has the right to be heard, but that right comes with a responsibility to treat others with kindness.
I was elected on a platform of transparency and respect because I believe every resident should feel safe to have their say, whether that’s at a Council meeting, in an email, or online. But that only works if we create an environment where people feel safe to speak.
Each of us has a role to play in changing this culture.
Think before you post.
Ask yourself if you’d say the same thing face-to-face, and if you see someone being attacked online, call it out.
A simple reminder to “keep it respectful” can make a big difference.
Let’s not allow the behaviour of a few to define us.
Together, we can make sure our online spaces are places for ideas, discussion, and community connection – not anger and abuse.
By Mayor Leah ANDERSON